7yrs ago whilst i was pregnant my then fiance had a 6mth affair, we worked it out n got married 3yrs ago. I just found out he has joined 38 dating sites. He says its not really cheating and he didn't do anything too bad because most of the females on there are robots. I still am hurting...it sucks.
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That stinks...not sure why they do it...the second time hurts a lot just deeper and kills the trust you built back. Went through a similar things...a year of recovering, counselling, couples getaways etc...and she ends up contacting the om again...it really is selfish no matter what spin they put on it...it is like they aren't brave enough to move on, free us from their lies and stop hurting us...I don't think we can really understand their thinking when it comes down to it...we can just know we gave it every chance and make wise decisions to protect what remains of our tattered hearts going forward.
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