i woke up this morning being sad and upset because every morning i wake up, my boyfriend is always gone. the both of us are laid off and i know that the army has him doing things and that he is a early bird, but he is never ever home when i wake up. and it got me thinking about how we started dating and our few bumps in the relationship and how its grown so much. then i recalled about a year ago, he was talking to another girl over the internet and i asked him to not talk to her, so he messaged her insted. and now that we are talking about getting married and making a life with each other, i want to know if thats the case now, or if the opportunity came up, if he would take it or not. i want to kind of make up a false facebook account and flirt with him on it. i know this is ridiculous, and i do trust him, i just like to "double check my work" in away.i think im going crazy. maybe i am
Sami,
I find your comment about not being answered ironic because I have posted advice to some people and they seem receptive (at first), but I think that they just don't want to be helped because they stop posting. I think they feel that they are being judged, maybe, but that is not the case.
I know that it's hard to think of leaving someone you love and care for. Especially when it seems that anyone has been with them for any length of time, but I truly believe that is the best thing to do because in situations of broken trust...
When you stay, you are indicating that it's okay. Also, they don't think very much of you because they don't think you have the gumption to care about yourself. That makes them not care for you. They also feel that it's very easy to manipulate you, in the long run because you will not try too hard to make waves for fear of losing them.
In the end, your self-esteem gets driven further into the ditch. No one is worth sacrificing our own self worth. I want you to watch this video and hope that it will inspire you because I believe what this young man is saying: He told all the girls out in the audience that they were beautiful just the way they were.
Please enjoy. Cut and past the link that follows: http://www.stumbleupon.com/su/1y6hPD/www.spiritling.com/profile/Wakanda/content/1561/r:f