I guess the biggest reason I have joined this group is because I know how hard it can be and how judgemental people can be. I was lucky in some aspects and my younger sister came out way before I started dating my girl friend. (I am not really sure if I am a lesbain but that honestly doesnt matter to me) My sister however was very angry with me when I told her. Also my younger brother is slowly trying to come out, he is only 15, and it is very difficult for him. Also my girl friend has not been able to tell her family. When we lived in the same town as them she would lie to them about where she was going and who she was with whenever she could. Since I have never identified one way or another her parents did not think anything about it but since we lived in a really small town whenever we would go out we couldnt really be together. Now that we live 6 hours away things are better but her family cannot even visit us because she would have to tell them first. Anyway....hope everyone is doing well!
Man that's a tough situation. Sounds alot like me and my girlfriend when we were together. She lives 4 hours away and things got hard. No one deserves to be judged. How long have you been together with your gf?
Im really sorry things were so hard with you and your girl friend. I just read your post. We have been together for almost 2 years. I just hate it because she is so close to her family and since we have been together she has had to hide so much from them. Her grandparents actually adopted her so her parents are really her grandparents. She is scared to death that her mom will never talk to her again.
Do your parents know anything at all?
Wow she's in the same situation as I was and kind of still am. My parents don't know that I had a girlfriend. But the do know about her. I met her online and she is 5 years older than I am. I told one of my "close friends" about her and she totally back stabbed me and told my family about her and I got in more trouble than you can imagine. They said If I ever talked to her again they'd have her arrested. So we lost contact for a couple months but then I missed her desperatly and email her a long email. We went out again but now we are broken up again:( it's the most complex relationship. The best advice I can give you is to just wait for her. It sounds like you really love each other:)