Today was the 2nd anniversary of my whole world falling apart. He cheated, we tried to work it out, but the lying never stopped.
I kicked him out of my house and started healing.
Today, out of the blue, he apologized and it just sent me in a tailspin. All those feelings came back and I want to scream!
It will be ok. I know that in my heart, but damn.
Sending love to you all. Stay strong.
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Hi friend,
Thank you for sharing your story with such honesty and vulnerability. It takes a lot of strength to not only go through such a painful experience but to also choose healing and stand firm in your boundaries, even when it’s hard. It’s understandable that hearing from him, especially with an apology, would stir up old emotions—it’s like reopening a wound that’s still healing.
What you’re feeling is completely valid. Healing isn’t always linear, and sometimes things we thought we’ve moved past come rushing back unexpectedly. But the fact that you’ve already made such progress shows how resilient you are. It’s okay to feel the weight of those emotions again, and it’s also okay to give yourself the space to process them in your own time.
Be kind to yourself in this moment, and remember that your journey of healing is your own. You’re not alone in this, and you’ve got a community here sending love and support your way. Stay strong—you’ve come so far already. With love, SG
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Thank you.
I really needed to hear that.
Thank you.
I so much feel for you dearie , it happens we love the ones that hurt us most. well in a nutshell . I wish you all the best . The best partner will come and will stay forever .