And once again he gets angry at me because I can't find some stupid little piece of metal wire that was suppose to be sitting on the floor by his tools. He made the comment "watch Im going to come in and find it right on the floor where you can see it" I told him straight up "good you should, because it's your crap not mine, you know where you put **** and what you're looking for. " This is the whole reason why I refuse to get things for him when it comes to his tools and crap. I dont know any of that ****.
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He's just like my ex I couldn't deal with his shirt it means he's sick of you and wants to move on.
He's done that since day one. He just thinks that because he can find his crap in his mess that everyone else should be able to find it just as easily. He likes to play the blame game too, He'll misplace something and then blame me saying that I was just over there moving crap or that I was cleaning in that area so I had to have moved it.
Eh molldoll, that's not completely true. He sounds like he has issues of his own that need working out. Also, regal_witch13 I'm so glad you actually stood up and said that! Because it's true! He shouldn't be mad at you for something you're not responsible for. Don't let your partner treat you like his mom, you're not supposed to RAISE HIM! If you feel like it's time, warn him that you'll leave if he doesn't get his issues sorted out, because they should not have to be all yours.
Thanks BIRDdotJPEG, I know he has issues to work out but he does do the blame game quite a lot. Half the time, when I know I can't make his problems vanish I do tell him straight up that it's not my problem to fix. Just like if I have a problem and he gets mad at me for not telling him what's wrong, I tell him straight up that he cant fix it so to leave it alone and let me deal with it. The other night when we fought I actually told him straight up that I was done babysitting him. I do everything, anytime he wants a drink or something to eat he asks me to do it, if he wants something he asks me to get it, I do his laundry, make his meals all day every day, cleans up after the cats that are supposedly not mine, feed his lizard, do his dishes because he's a germaphobe. Like I do everything and he made the snide comment back that I wasn't babysitting him, he's babysitting me. I just raised my eyebrow at that but he didn't care to explain.