Which is more preferable arranged or love marriage? and which works the best?
hussein
difficult question hon but i think both start out the same way, there is no way of knowing if u have chosen a life partner who shares your values or will be around when the chips are down,
having witnessed a few arranged marriages some have been very good whilst others have not been more than luke warm so i guess each has its strong points as well as the weak areas,
as for love matches u only have to look at the people who write here to know that is no more a gaurentee of things being sucessful
i think the ones that work best are if people are prepared to work share communicate and grow within the relationship and have simualar values to start with
as always loving thoughts and positive vibes
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To what i feel arranged marriages work the best. i tell you why!, 1st thing is they are less chances for heart break 2nd love after marriage is a journey which helps both partners to reach a goal and the goal is love…
Buy yes i will agree to your point as well!.
hussein
i agree with what u say hon but i have found that for some the love deepens and strengthens after marriage, to fall in love is easy its the maintaining shared values and goals that is the hard part of the relationship
but u do have a point
have a good day
as always loving thoughts and positive vibes
D :)
I know a lot of miDdle eastern woman who have been in successful arranged marriages for years, I often joke that I want them to arrange one for me.