I cheated on my husband two years ago. The worst part was that it was with his brother AND one of our good friends. Too much partying and not enough respect!! Since everything came out, we have not been able to go to any functions where these people will be. I'm feeling abandoned by my friends..no support, can't say as I blame them considering what I did. I'm feeling so depressed and hopeless....I can't believe I was so carless with another person's feelings and really with my whole families life, because it has affected everyone. My daughters don't get to hang out with the kids of our friends because my husband will not be around if that person is there and they are always in the same group....totally isolated from our main group of friends. And none of the others have called me and said "hey we miss you" I mean I'm sure they are all in shock and don't know what to do, but obviously I was never that important to them in the first place. We live in a small community so everybody knows everything......I feel like I've ruined my life, but know that I can get through this and have a future. Please help!!
I have made mistake after mistake and repeated even the same hurtful, destructive irresponsible actions over like I'm insane..
People come and go your whole life.. Small community or not, you are in control of who you allow to affect you directly. True friends will support you through this. Nobodies opinion really matters in the end, but yours and your partners. If you stay in the ashamed you are never going to be seen as anything else. Hold your head up tall and claim who you are today.. Your past is in the past, now you need to let it go and everyone else will follow. You don't have to feel this way about it. Forgive yourself. Move forward! Make new friends.