Can someone answer a question? I had receptive anal sex 90 days ago. All std test neg, except clinic did not do a test for HSV. I had no initial symptoms. Now however I have a painful rear but no pustules or ulcers externally. All functions normal other than sitting on hard stools. Any advice out there?
My experience went like this. I had anal sex, everything was normal. About a week later, it started feeling a little loose/open. Like it does directly after anal sex, you know? Then, a couple days later, it hurt extremely badly. It felt like how you'd imagine an anal prolapse feeling. It hurt to try to use the bathroom, sit, etc. It hurt inside and around the rectum. The pain continued and also became itchy. I thought perhaps it was hemeroids. I took pictures, and it looked without a doubt like herpes. Maybe syphilis. I went to the doctor the next day, they put, I guess a clear speculum type thing into my anus, allowing them to see inside. The worst lesions were inside, and right on the rectum. They confirmed it was herpes. My world fell apart. In any case, if your experience was anything like mine, you'll probably have to wait until they are visible, or have the doctor look inside.
Oh no....I'm married.....
Is there a chance you got it from him/her? I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years. I got it from him, he used spit instead of lube while he had a mouth outbreak so mild he had no idea that he had it at all.