Cheating is a personal decision. Some people will never chea

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Cheating is a personal decision. Some people will never cheat no matter how bad things are. Others will always cheat no matter how good they have it.

Isn’t this the truth?!

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That is true.

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I think it is a choice. We have control over our actions. Probably best to leave a bad relationship rather than have an affair.

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@trying14 I agree. It is better to leave a bad relationship that cheat. Cheating is selfish and unfair and costs the betrayed spouse/family years of hurt.

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Very true!

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Agree!

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I would tell my X that all the time. Leave me before u cheat on me. I’m a person that gives 100 how can I look at someone else if I’m 100 in? Cheating means ur not there 100 or near it. I can’t wrap around my head how they would choose someone they don’t know over one that has proved with her actions she is worthy of the world.

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@B0nyta I am the same way. I have not looked at another guy since I’ve been with my husband, that’s why it was really hard for me when I found out about his affair. Over and over he keeps telling me that it meant nothing, but I can’t wrap my head around the fact that he was willing to hurt someone that he claims he loves just for someone that mean anything to him? He was stupid enough to risk loosing a family when supposedly she is nothing compared to me.

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So True!!!!

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The God's honest truth.

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@Scat I took so much $h*t from my H but still stayed by his side with the hope that everything will get better. He had it so good, and kept telling me how lucky he was to have me. More like stupid because I supported him no matter what and he still cheated. I should have known better.

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My husband had it good. He cheated 6months into our marriage. Cheating is definitely a choice.

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@Snsa So did my H. He admits that he was stupid but again, he still did it and lied to me for 4 mos. He knows that no one else will support him the way that I did, but yet he still cheated.

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Clarisa, we are so into the same shoes. I am sorry.

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@Devastatedhusband it’s really sad that we are going through all these because of their bad decisions. My H thinks I should be over all the pain by now (it’s been 5 weeks) and that we should try to work things out and move forward. I don’t know if he thinks this way because I have spoiled him by forgiving everything else he has done or if he really is just an a$$. I think it’s definitely both.

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True story

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