Cheating wife

My wife refuses to stop cheating and lying and i love her but its killings me.

You cant just accept what she is doing. As far as I am concerned cheating even once is unforgivable. Multiple times is just total lack of concern for your feelings. My ex wife cheated on me at the end of our marriage. I am actually glad she did because it finally broke the spell she had me under and I realized I had been the victim of an abusive narcissist for 15 years and she didn’t really care about me. I was the one who ended up wanting a divorce as she tried to come back. If someone truly loves you they cant cheat on you in my opinion. I hope you are ok. I know the devastating pain of loving someone who is a liar and a cheater. Best of luck.

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How long have you guys been married? I understand loving someone so much that the thought of losing them is unimaginable. I challenge you to look within. What kind of love and respect do you deserve? Would you be open to marriage counseling? Would she be open to attending marriage counseling? There has to be some effort from both parties to work through hard time. You are deserving of love. You are deserving of respect. You are deserving of support. Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your situation.

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