My fiance and I normally do really well together, but recently we have been having problems. Things like, not listening to what I have to say or even stopping me mid sentence and recently he's been almost mean, picking on me about things he knows I am sensitive about. And to top it all off, now our sex life has dropped enormously. I am concerned that this may not be just a phase. Please give me your input.
hayhay try and find a place where you two can spend time together and talk through things. maybe ask him to listen first. tell him you have some things you want to talk about it and would appreciate it if he would listen to you all the way through before he talked. i also saw your other posts about miscarriages, do you think he is affected by this as well? perhaps he is unable to talk about his emotions. It seems like both of you have been going through a lot right now and maybe see a counselor is another idea you might want to try. someone neutral that can help you get through this time.
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Hayhay, you've received some good advice & do try to follow it as this will begin to lead you through to finding answers as you have had alot going on emotionally, please take it one step at a time & day by day & go easy on yourself.
Take care of you.
April
p.s. get a timer set it for a minute & ask him to listen to you for 1 full minute without interrupting & you do the same for him, just a thought.
Morgan, I'm very interested in what you said. How do you know these are signs of cheating? I hope you are wrong in this case, but anyway I would like to know more about the subject. Sure enough I'm not the only one.M.K.
Want to add.....its also called experienced by living in it & learning from it.