Well I have an August 9th court date and thenit will be official. I still cannot believe it. does not seem to be getting any easier.
I think that it is a process and with time it will get better but it will take time. We had a mediator but now I wait for the lawyers to do the paperwork. It is a constant waiting game. I have been separated from my husband for 2 yrs and I filed but it is still very hard and I go through days when I miss him but I know I couldn't live with him. I use to think people just went out and got a divorce. It is an emotional roller coaster. Surround yourself with people that care and love you and get into a support group I also did some counseling. Prayers to you.