I have a lot of tolerance for things, I'm big on compromise. But aren't there some things you just shouldn't have to compromise? The list can go on and on, but I am just going to mention one, for now.
I am a HUGE dog/animal lover. Grew up on a ranch, have had dogs and horses my entire life. Any man I'm with needs to be on board with my dogs. They are my children, without a doubt. And I will do anything for them, and they come first in my life. People that are allergic, fine, get some medication. But there are those that just aren't into dogs... I never understood those types of people. What about them don't you like? The hassle? The slight mess (children will be messier), the inconvenience? I don't care what the reasons are for others, I find all of those factors to be worth what my animals provide for me. True and pure unconditional love. Anyone I'm with needs to know them and love them like I do, or else I harbor some sort of resentment. Is that too demanding or unreasonable of me?
What are other people's deal breakers? I'm interested to know...
July, funny enough but that's my biggest deal breaker. I can honestly over-look many things, but if someone doesn't love dogs, then it's a deal breaker. I love love love animals and most especially dogs. I have a dream of owning a large piece of land where all of my rescue dogs will run freely and happily.
That’s so wonderful to hear. I plan to do the exact same thing someday with my family’s ranch. I looked into it, very expensive and will take a lot of planning on my end but certainly worth it!
I love that your family has a ranch, that's so amazing and such a dream of mine. It must be heavenly to have such a magnificent outlet. And, I also think that it's so fantastic that you've already looking into doing it on your own. I am working towards my dream and hope that I will have a man who shares in my passion for and love of animals. And, I am wishing you the same :-)
Heya,
Even though a dog lover myself, I could deal with that, if he had an issue with them for a certain reason, fear, etc
Deal breakers for me...would be
A man that is physically or emotionally abusive
A man that does not want to get married
A man that does not want kids
They would be the top 3, because it would cripple me to have a man putting either one of those into my life. The others even the hard ones, i hope we could work out together.
Good post July
Those are really important and key deal breakers Moongal. It's so good that you are aware and know your deal breakers. I understand that some people fear dogs, but I honestly can't imagine my future without many rescue dogs, as it's been my dream for so long.
Hey Puppy,
I understand and if that is your dream and one of your deal breakers then let it be so. Pets are so important and invaluable, so excited for you to be getting a dog soon enough...bet it will be a cutie pie.
Thank you so much Moongal! I know that it may sound like a silly deal breaker to most, but it's so important to me. He doesn't have to necessarily share in my passion, but at least accept it and want to be a part of it. And, of course trustworthiness, strong morals and values are above and beyond everything else.