Did anyone hire a private investigator to get proof of what

did anyone hire a private investigator to get proof of what you had a feeling was happening. I am thinking about it not sure how much it costs. I find it will be the only way i can get peace of mind. Either my feelings are right or wrong. I want an answer. I cannot live with mistrust. It is always in the back of my mind. I jus wish that someone would step up and tell me the truth, because i can almost hear the snickering behind my back especially by his family. It is what they wanted, my marriage to screw up like theirs. I just needed to vent.

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They are pretty expensive is my understanding. Can you install a key logger on his phone or follow him one day/night?

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No can't say that I didn't want to though never even asked how much it would cost

I have major trust issues and I never went there it must be very painful to have that in your head all day. I don't know if I could stay. Though total trust in a relationship is not a must for me. A certain amount of jealousy is good in my opinion.

I didn't hire anyone, but I did a lot of investing myself!

Easily spent 1000+ hours searching.

@prettyc212 Honestly the searching became like an addiction for me.

@prettyc212 I still struggle with stopping.