Divorce should be an easy thing to go through right. Well it hasn't been easy as I thought or am letting on. Or maybe I'm just confused or idk what. Or maybe I already know the answers and coming here to write is pointless but if I don't, it'll just end getting bottled up and I'll start doing self destructive behaviors again. I really love my boyfriend and I'm very happy with him. In fact, he's the one I should've married but should've, would've, could've. If I only had met him earlier I know. I know what wasn't right was he had me destroy everything that had to do with my wedding day. I understand that it hurt him bc he wasn't the lucky guy, but I wasn't ready to part just yet. Granted my ex husband married his job and put me second, I get that and I also see where my boyfriend's feelings come into play but was it wrong of him to make me dump all my wedding stuff when I wasn't ready? I have no emotional attachment to my ex husband but just the sight of the box that my dress was in made him get upset and now my mom is going to sell it and I don't really want her too. I realize how this may come across but maybe I'm just reading into things to much.
hey there, does he feel like you holding on to you wedding dress, is you maybe missing your ex, or still loving him? If it is a big deal for him, and for you, i don't think you are reading too much into it, but perhaps this is an issue that the two of you might want to work through? kind of like heal a hurt before it becomes too hurt filled? what does the group think?
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