i recently married a man who turned out to be abusive, i'm going through my healing after making him leave, i told my sister how proud of myself i am for getting angry and coping the healthy way, she asked me why i was angry, she didn't approve of my marriage since i met the man online and we married quickly, ok i made a big mistake, but still don't i have the right to be angry? she brings the subject up all the time, i did love the man at first, and i am really hurting emotionally now, and her "rubbing my face" in my error is not helping me at all
Hi pamib,
You are doing a great job of starting the healing process. Angry? You have every right to be angry. So you made a mistake,we all do, none of us are perfect including your sister. I think you have a lot of courage and I only wish the people I know who are in abusive situations would take a lesson from you. Sometimes sisters get mad at you because they feel like they failed in their life so they take it out on you. Keep moving forward, you deserve it.
ssgiggler