Do y'all ever feel like y'all are not good enough or anything. My mom and sister always makes me feel like that. Like if I don't do something right, my mom says that I can never do anything right. If my mom ask me to do something, and I can't she tells me that I can't do anything. I feel so worthless. I love kids so much, and if my neice or nephew asks me to do something for them, and I tell them give me just a minute, my mom and sister says that I never need to have kids, or ever need to work with kids, because I want to work at a childcare or something like that. Maybe it's just me, maybe I am not good enough and worthless.
Melissa,
you are not worthless!!! and my older sister is the same way twards me! im 25 and she still does it!!! i just hope you dont listen to them! there are things in this world we can do and things that w cant do! just because you are not wonder woman does not mean you are worthless!! sometimes i think my sister is crazier than me! and maybe they are just hard on you to cover up their own failures!!!!! i know the feeling of family dragging you down and making you feel like whatever you do is not enough! but it is! if you ever need someone to talk to i am here!!! just let me know!
Stay strong!!!!!
Crow
Thank you Crow. I don't know why my mom and sister does it. It use to be worse a couple years ago when my sister was living with us. I went through depression, and I was trying to always act happy. I'm sorry that your sister does that to you.
and im sorry that your mom and sister do that to you and im happy for you that its not as bad as it used to be but i still say forget them! no one is perfect!
Exactly. I try to ignore them, but it still hurts. I wish I could just not care anymore, but I always will. I have to live with them until I get somewhere to go, but I am also fixing to be 17, so I have to wait until I turn 18 to get out. My mom told me that she was gonna make me live with her until I turn 21, but I'm gonna try my best to change that to 18. My sister was 17 when she went to live with her boyfriend. My mom tries to keep me locked up a lot, like she will let me go off with friends, but she doesn't like it to much. Everything my sister and cousins has done gets held against me, and I am nothing like them, but they still have their doubts about me.
you just keep doin what you are doin and hopefully with any luck they will see that you are your own person and that you are not them! and i know it hurts! i dont live with my parents or family and it still hurts me! my sister is probably the only person on this earth that can tear me down so bad! she is the only one i know that has ever set me off so bad i have harmed myself and even attempted to kill myself! even now she has some kind of hold over me and i hope you dont end up with your mom and sister with that same kind of hold! it is completely unpleasant!!!! and how i hate it!!!! so you just be you!!! if you try to be something else then it only makes it worse!!! you got this girl!!! you can show them that you are better than what they see!!!!!
Peace and Serenity!
Crow
Thank you Crow, I am always here for you if you ever need to talk.
thanx melissa! and i hope your days are getting better!
Crow!!!!
Thank you. I have my good days and my bad. My days has just been mixed here lately. How are you doing?