Even as rough as the last few days have been, I am still worried about a couple friends on here.
You are a special person to care about others, even though you are hurting. I think this is the best way we can get out of a funk! Sometimes I feel what I'm complaining about is apples and oranges to what others are going through.
There are some I want to just gather into my arms and care for them they are in so much need. I really have nothing to complain about.
@paperbackwriter Thank you. I’d rather think of what I am saying as trying to communicate my needs rather than complaining. I don’t say things for pity. I say them to get them off my chest, find empathy and support, and hopefully help me find ideas to help solve my problems although most on here aren’t as good as I could get professionally.
Hope you are feeling better today. I have just cut off contact with my family. I know God doesn't like that. I just want to stop getting hurt. What should I do?
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@jrcute God isn’t going to judge you like that. If you really believe God is love, then believe He is love. And love is love how it is defined, not in judgment of family or anyone else. If God didn’t judge a wh0re, why would he judge you for running from those who don’t love you? Stay away from your family for a while. If they love you, they’ll LEARN to accept you for who you are and welcome you back after they realize they’ve lost someone very precious to them. If not, find another family. Blood is just blood. But family is family - blood or not.
I had that same issue one time, cutting off with my family. A chaplain told me I wasn't breaking any Biblical laws by breaking ties with an abusive, toxic family. Don't do vindictive things to get back at them or wish them any harm. You have the right in God's eyes to be healthy and happy and He doesn't want you unhappy or abused.
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