Does the pain ever end its been 4 months since me and my fiance separated and not a day goes by that she doesn’t cross my mind we did everything together i loved her with everything i had my heart and soul it was just never enough i thought i could change her heal her past get rid of the red flags but it tore me down instead
It takes alot of time. Start with keeping busy in your life and maybe try exercising as stress relieve. When its time to move on maybe sometimes in the future you might met another person. Hugs
yes…everything takes time…its really hard to move on at first or just to cope with life. but it will get better…take care of yourself and reach out to supportive people as that will help. you can come on here and post every single day if u need to…
You should focus on yourself, especially on anything to improve yourself (health, looks, finances) it won’t get rid of the thoughts but would sure help you
It said that time heals all, however it is also said that what you do during that time plays a significant role in how you heal. Thinking about your ex each day for four months can in no way be beneficial for your mental health. To truly move on you must accept what has happened and be intentional about productively living on.
It will get better just keep busy and make sure you are with friends and family during this time. I just found out that my wife of 34 years is filling for divorce because of something I said to her out of anger. When she told me what I said I was shocked and begged her to try to work it out, but she said no it was Broken. I am shocked what I told her and do not blame her for leaving me, but I will learn from this and hopefully get stronger every day. Forget him and move on with your life it will get better.