Hi everyone i just joined. I dont know what to do about my husband, we used to be bestfriends now he hardly talks to me and wen he does i always feel like hes mad at me. we have been married for 22 yrs and now im so lonely. he feels i dont do enough around the house and i dont work enough cuz i only work about 22 hrs a week and that I wears me out. I need help with cooking cleaning and the laundry i used to be super mom and i did everything including walking, hiking and biking i used to weigh 130lbs and as i started loosing my mobility i now weigh 220 and i dont even eat to gain the weight.. the drs. put me on vegies and chicken only for 2months and i gained 20lbs very depressing. He doesnt like the way i look. does anyone have any ideas or do i just need to try harder..Dawn
i am so sorry to hear that he doesnt like the way you look. sometimes people cant help certain things and i have a family member who has arthritis and she is in constant pain. her hands are curling more and more each year that goes by so it limits her to what she can do. so it is understanding that you arent capable of doing things like you used to be able to do. besides its not the outside that counts its the beauty on the inside. there can be really beautiful people physically but on the inside they are so ugly you cant tolerate them. i am sure you are fine the way the good lord made you. it sound like you are a good person on the inside and that is what counts. i wouldnt try harder just be you. i have started putting on alot of weight myself and i dont eat alot either. i have some health problems plus i am on some medications so it is hard as far as the weight goes. i wish you the best of luck.
Thank u Ashley it help to hear from other people who get it..I have been on a new script for fibro called savilla it doesn't seem to help but I keep taking it..lol. idk why I hope u r feeling ok today I know every hour is different..let me know if u ever need to vent..I hate to tell anyone how bad I'm feeling cuz nobody wants to be around a complainer..but if anyone is willing to listen I have a lot to unload..lol....Dawn
hey anytime you need to vent im here. im a complainer at times to lol. my family member and i complain to eachother all the time lol. some people cant handle pain and i think we are one of those people. pain is not fun and especially in the bones. i loved your comment about it changes from day to day with how you feel. you are so totally right. with asthma the weather seems to affect it. my family member said when it gets cold her hands hurt really bad so it depends on the day. im doing good today. i was so thrilled that i didnt have any attacks yesterday! thanks for asking hope your day goes well for you.