My boyfriend and I broke up about a week ago and I can't seem to get myself together. He was amazing and everything I could ever want or ask for. However, he was just not happy in our relationship and decided to end it. He states that I am the most perfect girl in the world but he doesn't think it's fair that I give so much more in the relationship than he does and he thinks I deserve better. I didn't see this coming at all and I want nothing more than him to call me and take me back. I feel like I am finally at the point in my life where I am tired of dating and I just want to find "the one". I miss him so much and it kills me to know that I couldn't make him happy. I work full time and in my free time I do school work because I am in graduate school. I don't have much free time and when I do I just want to spend it at home (usually with my boyfriend). I feel as though I will be single forever and that maybe finding a husband just isn't in the cards for me. It is difficult for me because I am a shy person and I don't enjoy going out and partying. I just don't think that there is anyone out there that will ever want to be with me.
Hi Dreaming, I know how difficult break-ups can be and I think that it's important to go through the "grieving" phase for the loss. It is the loss of a relationship, though once you allow yourself to go through the emotions, you can look forward and towards a beautiful new chapter in your life. You will meet your one and your ex did you a big favor by clearing your path in order for your one to come in.
Would be wise to take this time to explore yourself & what you want in life as you sound so well adjusted & capable which is very necessary for finding someone that can offer you the same qualities & solid foundation that you so deserve. Be patient w/yourself & talk to us here, we're listening to you.
I like the way Pup said it & I agree, he did you a favor that you'll see in time.
All my strengths.
April