So my fiance is in the peace corps and has been called away on an extended assignment. I support her and am very proud of her, but we've been out of contact for a while now, and I'm beginning to experience a crushing sense of lonliness. I have plenty of friends and family, but for some reason, despite their good intentions, their advice only seems to make me miss her more. Please, does anybody have any insight into this type of situation? I'm usually a very easy-going guy, but this has me on the verge of tears...
lostguy, all ladies in the world would be grateful to have a guy miss her so. i have been married for 19 years and my husband still says he'd be lost without me. hhmmm your not hun. i'm so sorry your so lonely and on the verge of tears. do youknow when she will be coming home? i'm hoping soon hun. in the meantime we're here for you.
lost guy
its a shock to the system hon when u are out of contact with loved ones but that will soon pass u bounce back and find things to tide u over in those lonely times for me it was the other way round i was the one at home and he was overseas and we survived without email or cell phone so u can do this and feel great about yourself
love D :)
Thanx so much for tesponding. I'm feeling a bit better today, its just rough knowing that I'm going to miss her B-day and our 4th anniversary... I'll get thru it tho'. Thanx again!
@ wiffyatthehub- thanx for your post. She'll be gone for another 3 months... I know it doesn't sound like that long, but it still gets to me, probably since we have no way to communicate. It seems a little embarrasing to be acting like a love-sick teenager at 28 y.o., but she's my best friend as well as my lover, so it's just a little weird going out and doing everything without her... I'm graduating from med. school this month and I'd love for her to be there, but I've just gotta get over it. Thanx again for responding : )
its ok hun to feel how you feel…ya miss her!!! just cause your a guy does’nt mean you can’t let down the macho and feel what ya really feel. our friend domestic that responded to you…saved me from the depths of despair at the beginning of january when i joined this site…may do you good to mail her…lots of wisdom does that woman have…med school eh…wow and what kind of med are you graduating from? you know you can keep chatting with us to help you thru the next 3 months till your honey gets home, we’d be glad to help you thru hun. have a great day