Feeling really over whelmed right now I moved back to my parents house two weeks ago and I'm still living out of my bags cause my dad hasn't made any room for me and now the keep adding stuff to the room making it more cluttered and now I'm freaking out cause I feel so closed in ... my dad and mom doesn't understand why I feel like I do I just want to relax and I can't when I feel like there's so much stuff in there!!! Ugh!!!
Try taking control of your space and (not aggressively) shift things around to make room. If they don't ask you if they can pile stuff in then don't feel like you can't make space for yourself. What made you move back into their house?
@SpoonfulOfHanii my boyfriend and I needed some space but I can’t wave put my clothes away cause my dad has all Hoss clothes in there
Have you tried asking them or telling them how you feel?
@SpoonfulOfHanii yea my dad was like what’s so bad about a cluttered room saying it over and over again
Well hang on to the few spots you do have of space. Hopefully it won't be long before you are out of there again. Also if he keeps saying it then tell him adult to adult "There is a problem with a cluttered room....there is no room for me" Did you talk to your mom?
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I had to go through going back to my parents place 2 years ago, and just now Im coming out of their place to my own again (much different context than yours). Loss of personal space can be very difficult to deal with, but sometimes we have to make sacrifices to attain a higher goal.