First Friday night alone since he moved out last Saturday

First Friday night alone since he moved out last Saturday. The divorce was my idea but it’s so **** hard. I’m sad, guilty, relieved, scared, lonely. It’s so hard to not check up on him. Besides me he doesn’t talk about emotional things with anyone. How do you stop caring and worrying about your spouse/ex? How do you stop feeling responsible for them? I thought I could “fix” him, that was our big problem. I’m having a lot of trouble breaking the pattern.

We are going through older posts on our site and wanted to check in our members we haven’t seen for awhile, how are you doing? How can we best support you? -SG

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