going through divorce feeling very depressed
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Same here. Seeing how cold my husband is hurts so much. We are like roommates. Three weeks ago we were fine, laughed, cuddled etc.. Oh the pain:(
I just don't no how to get through it shes all I can think about
@john1966 If you haven’t seen her in a couple of months and then you see it, she will look different to you. Not the same. At least that is my situation. I would never take him back after the pain he has put me through. I really don’t understand why people go back to their spouses 3, 4, 5, 6 times etc. It makes no sense. Once, okay, but more than that, no, that is just stupid.
My divorce is final this week and all I have to do is go forward. I have looked back, (that was in the beginning), knowing full well what he was throwing away. And then I got on the internet, read some inspirational quotes, inspirational stories, etc. I especially like the one: If they elect to walk out on you, let them walk. It makes sense to me. Divorce is hard, but for me, I am ready to move on and find a man that will cherish me. No, I am not going to be getting marries anytime soon, but I do miss having a man's point of view in my conversations. I really don't think that is much to ask for. How about you? When will your divorce become final? My state says 61 days, but it will be final all in 4 months. Hard to believe I was with someone for 28 years and it is over in 4 months. Now, I just want to move on and get out of TX. There is nothing for me here. I will be going back to a great state where friends love me. :) I think a new start will be nice. I am happy for you that you have made some sense of your own situation and will be moving on. It is not right that another person keeps using you like a yo-yo. You are right, that has to stop for your own health and well being. i wish you only happiness in the future. You will find out. Stay strong, my friend, stay strong!