Guys I don't know what to do . I'm 15 and I have had 7 boyfriends out of which 2 were serious and the rest barely lasted a month and I haven't even hugged these people. I know its a lot of guys to have dated and I put my parents through a lot of trouble with having to change my schools and hide this from my family. All my life I have been told that I was inferior to the rest of my family I've been told that I am the black sheep and that I don't deserve half of what I get. I have always had to deal with bullies , people who spread rumours and call me names and I went through depression for a bit but I always manage to cheer myself up and be happy. Today morning my mom started yelling at me I don't know why. She said that it's always been about boys with me just because I got a friend who happens to be a boy home for an hour . we sat in my living room where my mom and dad could see and I was with my cousin and he had another friend too. She just lashed out at me and really hurt my feelings. My entire life I had to deal with bullies now I have to deal with her. I wish I could burn my face so I could just look at her and say " see mom , no more boys for me, be happy."
No growing up is not easy...boys will come and go. Try doing something you like. Focus your attention in sports or training like r.o.p. Get a job. Stay busy. Sometimes your mom is frustrated at other things not you. You need to be the grown up sometimes. Try to help your mom with shores and sometimes they work hard. You sound kind and wonderful
Hi! I'm so sorry this has been happening! I kind of go through boys pretty fast too, I know it's super stressful when they seem like they just come and go. One way to mitigate how hard it is to lose boys is to lean on your friends. It sounds like your parents and you are having a hard time right now, so friends might feel a little safer sometimes? Also, if your school has a good counselor, it is absolutely okay to go to them. You're fifteen, you don't have to have this super down pat. I'm in my 20's and it's still hard. Also, parents can be harsh, but you sound like a fantastic person and they should be proud to have you!
@KateGreen thanks :‘) that really lightened my mood :’)
I'm glad!:) If you ever need to talk I think there's a message thingy around here somewhere maybe? Idk, just got onto this site yesterday, but I'll try to find it lol. I hope you have good stuff come into your life soon:)
hey, I know how you feel. Although, I've been in love with a lot of boys but what I tell myself is: "can you see yourself marrying them, carrying out a future; can you see yourself living with them for the rest of your life or have they not blocked out the clouds of your life, made you want to giggle every time they smile, and clear away all the doubt and worry you've ever had?" Would you be willing to run off with them? This is why I haven't had any boyfriends ever. Ask yourself that, I'm the same age as you :) You can do it!