Guys out there: what goes through your mind when you partner

Guys out there: what goes through your mind when you partner tries to be sexy/be more assertive in the bedroom? (ie new lingerie, mood setting, putting on that special something, etc.)

Are you a female wondering what a male with ED thinks of this? Maybe in hopes to arouse him?

Yes I'm a female, but no. I understand that (at least with my man) it doesn't matter how sexy the mood is or how sexy I look. I want to understand how a guy feels/what he thinks when everything is set for intimacy but that one part of his body may not be.

@HopelesslyInLuv To answer your question, he feels like crap. He feels inadequate, incomplete as a man. And he feels bad because he can’t satisfy your sexual needs. It’s tough on you, of course, but it’s also very tough on him.