Had a fight with my husband, feels like when I tell him I'm not ready for certain intimate things to happen again he starts to get short with me even though he says he understands. The first time this happened things went back to normal pretty quickly but this time is different. Not only was this the second time which should be enough reason but we were doing great as a couple. I'm very hurt right now.
This is ABUSE....u and I both know it. It is not right or fair that he should be "bullying" you like this and using fear and intimidation to get his way. He's being abusive. I'm sorry, but he's abusing you. Acknowledge that and watch a video on youtube about co-dependency (when we get hurt because someone we love is being hateful towards us just because they aren't able to get their way). I hope that helps.
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I agree, he should never make you feel bad about anything you don't want to do. Especially if you are recovering from an emotional trauma such as infidelity.
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