Haven't post anything properly is awhile so i thought maybe it would be appropriate for me to share my point of view on certain things.
Recently looking through this site, I been reading plenty of posts stating people are upset that they basically haven't achieved or lived the life they wanted. Which leads them to stupid things like self harm or get suicidal.
Now i'm not trying to demean their issue by stating the self harm or suicide is stupid because it isn't in fact i think that putting themselves through is incredibly serious. But what i meant by that people it those thoughts shouldn't even be in their mind because everybody has a talent and something to look forward to in the future.
I self harmed and hung myself twice in fact, i did it for so many reason that i'd rather not get into because it's the past now. Personally looking back at it i would have given myself a slap really, tell myself to reach out but also to actively change my habits and make the right choices at the time.
I've been in the harshest environment and with the most negative people that only encouraged me to have that mind-set. I'm only saying because i truly do believe that EVERYONE has something unique to offer but as individuals, you need to actively follow the decisions you put on yourself. SHARING in a support group or psychiatrist is an amazing positive step but you also need push yourself to actively get out there in the world.
To improve your TALENTS and ACTUALLY BECOME THE PERSON YOU'VE ALWAYS SET OUT TO BE. Eventually in time you will see the immense progress you've made. By the way this is aiming at everyone regardless of age or gender.
I sincerely don't mean to upset anyone if this post has and i'm not motivational speaker. I'm just a human being who's gone through so much in life and i hope you can level with me on what i'm trying to say. Personally the more with think negatively and share negativity. The more we become the person we hate.
Everybody has a different perception on success and SUCCESS is SUBJECTIVE NOT OBJECTIVE. :) Anyways i hope people can see what i'm trying to say. Feel free to comment.