Still having a rough time. I change. Nothing else seems to reflect the change or the effort.
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Hi friend,
It sounds like you’re putting in a lot of effort, and it’s incredibly frustrating when the outside world doesn’t seem to mirror the progress you’re making internally. Change, especially personal growth, can feel slow and unseen at times. Sometimes the most significant shifts happen beneath the surface, and the world takes a while to catch up.
Remember, the changes you’re making are not wasted—they’re strengthening your foundation, even if they aren’t immediately visible. It’s like planting seeds; the growth happens underground before anything breaks through the soil.
Also, external circumstances don’t always reflect internal progress. You’re still evolving, even if the world around you seems unchanged. Try to celebrate the small victories and milestones you’ve reached. Give yourself credit for the effort, resilience, and courage it takes to work on yourself.
You’re not alone in this, and it’s okay to lean on others for support when things feel tough. What you’re doing matters, even if it feels like no one else sees it right now. Keep going, and trust that in time, things will align with the changes you’ve made. With love, SG
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Thank you. I’m trying.