He gets mad at me for asking what he's doing or looking over at the computer while he's on it, but he has no problem looking at my screen to see what i'm doing, even if it's just watching youtube videos on Zentangle stuff.
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How long u been together, he knows he in trouble and docent want to get caught
Doesn't
we've been together for six years. I know all of that, his excuse is that it's his business and he's entitled to have privacy.
You are entitled to your privacy too but maybe he will relax a bit if you let him look at what you are doing. Maybe if you show him, he will open up and show you too.
@BitterSweetLife That’s the thing though, is I’m always open since day one about what im doing. I’m only every on a few websites and i never have anything to hide, I’ve let him read through my facebook messages, my emails accounts (all three) and things like that and he still is all about his own privacy and constantly being secretive with everything. When I had my phone and he asked who i was talking too i told him and if he asked about what we were talking about then i gave him a run down of the convo. Every time he’s doing something that he doesn’t want me to see, he minimizes the window until i go out of the room or im not looking.
Wow, that would make it difficult to trust him. I don't know if this is the right way to handle it but the next time he asks or tries to see I would ask what he is doing first. Explain that I wouldn't share if he is not willing to. I am sure here is a better way to handle it though :/
@BitterSweetLife This time though he wasn’t doing anything, he was sitting in his chair eating ice cream