Married almost 20 years. Plenty of water under the bridge. We’re both at fault. Honestly, I feel like we’re roommates. I know this is probably not a new tale.
I don’t know how to reach her. She won’t consider counseling. I’m 50, which I realize isn’t OLD, but I’d like to get on with enjoying my life.
I do love her and care about her. But I want more out of this marriage.
Sometimes relationships have to end . Been there roomates did the counseling but in the end was best to go our separate ways.
Keep trying. All relationships get stale but you both have to keep plowing together if she will stay. Any marriage is worth saving. Keep us updated
That’s just it. I have hung in for a long time now and I try to “keep plowing”, but she won’t budge. I can’t re-build a marriage by myself.
Best thing i can say to you is to ask her what she wants, why she wants it, explain to her your side and try to get somewhere, sometimes relationships end and theres is not much to do about it, love is also letting go, as they say.
I understand. I guess you have to start getting ready to file for divorce papers???