Hello everyone, I am new. Due to the Holidays I will be away

Hello everyone, I am new. Due to the Holidays I will be away from my CODA group a friend suggested I try an online support group. My question is how do you survive the holidays with toxic family around that are unavoidable? If I avoid them I will miss out on Christmas with my family that do support me!

I think that is where boundaries come in to play, what we will or won't allow into our hearts. what does the group think? I am glad you are here with us, welcome!