Hello, I found this on the internet and I hope it helps. A year ago I felt very alone, my closest friends left the country, I no longer have friends to talk to or meet to do something in the Boring afternoons, it's hard for me to go out and meet new people (I'm 21 years old and my parents don't give me permission to go out), going from university to being locked in my room every day is consuming me. I live a bit far from the city.
I would like to do the same as the boys my age, go out, have fun, meet people, have new experiences, feel good... although I don't have good communication with my parents.
Now I can only ask myself: what can I do to feel better and get out of this cycle?
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One thing that stands out to me is that your parents won't give you permission to go out I find that very unusual since you are 21. Do you know why they won't let you go anywhere?
You could try to improve your communication skills so you could talk to your parents. If you are responsible and don't get into trouble then there is no valid reason why you shouldn't be able to go out and meet up with friends. Well, I guess you did say your friends moved so you don't have anything to do in the afternoons, does that mean your parents allow you to do things in the afternoon? My advice is to start working on your communication with your parents and not just let them keep you from having a little freedom.
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@Fohb460 Thank you so much. Where I live is a bit unsafe, they just tell me that they don’t want anything to happen to me, they want to try to keep me safe from whatever is going to happen. it bothers me a little the fact that they only think about the bad things that could happen if I just went out one night for dinner or any other plan. I don’t know if they are very jealous with me