Hello I'm new to this, so I'm not sure I'm posting in the right place. I came out late ,and was with a woman for 7 years. We broke up about a year ago. My question is this. Is it ME but I find that the lesbian community is not really friendly.They just don't know how to be friends. It is just so easy to be with straight woman.They return emails, calls, texts. You can go out for lunch, or coffee movies .etc.I find lesbians are clicky, or think everyone wants to date them.Is it me? I don't understand it. Must be me. Thanks for hearing me. Take care. Wjngs
Personally I think it's just you because I'm a lesbian and I know quite a few people whom I'm friends with who are gay/lesbian and are super nice and friendly
Guess it's me...I'm to shy quite and old to make new friends...Happy with my old straight friends. Wings
As someone who has been out of the closet since I was 19, I can say that your observation is accurate. I have gay friends, but not that many and I'm very active in the community. It's not you.
@Cmf927. Hello… Thank for the up-lift…I have 3 woman friends who are lesbians…2 married to eachother…Belong to a few meetup groups, but it just seems like it’s not very welcoming community I thought we were a group of supporting woman since we are not large in numbers…but I am wrong… Everyone I guess thinks you want to date them lo…l I just want to get a cup of coffee…lol… Thanks Take care. Wings