Help! I need some clarification on this disease as so much

Help! I need some clarification on this disease as so much info was thrown at me the other day that I'm confused. Diagnosed type 1 and 2 oral and genital although I've never had an OB. Most I've had are white sores on inside of mouth that I've been getting since I was a kid. I'm reading about not kissing, sharing utensils...my daughter drinks from cup all the time! What does all this mean for sex? If I've never had an OB can I pass anything along? How will this change my sex life if/when I ever have one again??!!

here are a few links to start you off with:
http://herpesopportunity.com/downloads/herpes-opportunity-disclosure-handout.pdf

and

http://www.nytimes.com/health/guides/disease/herpes-simplex/print.html

and:
http://www.supportgroups.com/herpes/besides-antivirals-there-are-other-ways-that-may-help-preve