Ok sO I am a sixteen year old girl a junior in high school and I think I may have a sex addiction I only think this because I've been through so much and I've had sex with twenty something people and idk what to do. I want to stop I really do but I always put my self in those situations where I'll end up having sex. I know this isn't normal I can feel it I mean I barely get pleasure from it but I do it anyways idk why. I have sex with guys who have girlfriends only because they don't get any from thief girls and I've even stooped down to having sex with my friends boyfriend and I feel horrible I want to stop but I don't know what to do can some one Please please help a young girl that Wants to change :(
hey Hun.
you seem like you know your problem , and that's a big step itself ..
you say u put urself in situations that end u up having sex .. SO , stop putting urself in those situations - idk how , coz u didnt explain what kinda situations r they -
second , you say you barely get pleausre for it , that's becoz it's always available for you - like a food u like so much , but when you keep eating it over and over , u start to dislike it - if u know what i mean .
you should take this step , and go for it relee hard , and we'll all be here to support you with every step :)
xoxo .. N !
Thanks that helPs but I wish it was that easy to just stop :( and the situations I'm talking about are like I'll meet up with someone knowing that at some point we will be alone and he will get what he wants. Idk i started to think about this last night after I posted that this could be a result of my constant rapes two years ago when I turned fifteen. I mean it's a possibility right????
first i'm sorry for what happened to u hun. .. and yea the rape thing might've helped in what you're in now .
and about these situations , try not to put urself in that place , where u will be alone with someone .. and apparently u r quiet aware of this , so u r the only one who can pull u out of a situation like this .
It's all a matter of intention and will :) .
xoxo .. N :)
and start to take action day by day .. and we're all gonna be here to hear u and support u :)
xoxo .. N :)