I swear I am going to wring out a neck His father doesn't bring him home like the judge said to before he left His sister didn't bring him home nor even the holier then now judgmental Christians named Shapley He has an attitude like just wait . I grounded him for sneaking off and lying like he did tuesday night to be with his father because that was wrong on his part I do not think even if his father said too that my son is without blame I also took away all but one service to that church he says Dad says ... I told him dad isn't the parent in this home I am he then goes you just said dad isn't a parent I then said I said in my home he then said I heard you say dad isn't a parent and this house is in his name
I want to wring his little bratty neck right now
If there is no reason for your son to treat u like this otherwise i would say your ex is feeding your sons mind with lies.
Your son is also learning by example (his father) how to manipulate you.
Document that your ex did not return your son to you. You could possibly call the police and inform them of the agreement. your son though is 15 . I don't know what the laws according to the USA are but here children at 16 can decide what parent they choose to reside with.
have you googled parental alienation?
As far as your son when he is with you do things with him that you both enjoy and talk to him when he needs it. Children have their own feelings to deal with in separation of parents.
AG♥
No he didn't have he thinks because he trashed me to the judge its a done deal he's going with his father the only thing is he didn't know what was said before him or that we had already alerted the court that his father had been gifting him things.
I am the judge Wednesday told him he had custody till Saturday when he had to return him to me before he left out of town. He did not do that he left at 545 this morning and my son said his sister had this member of the church bring him home at 10 am this was not what the judge ordered for my ex to do the judge has not ruled on custody yet so I notified my lawyer of this breach in the order that along with how he took him I can't believe this would be good for my ex's case.
I did ground him for a week for the lying and sneaking he did when he left with his father. This did upset my son because it next week is VBS at the church which he planed to work I told him sorry but that isn't going to happen he is grounded to the house and if he keeps disrespecting me he will lose something else
AG he doesnt want to do anything with me he is biding his time till he thinks he will be going with that other family he wont talk to me either he says his father says he doesn't have too
right there that is alienation...his father tells him he doesn't have to talk to you.
Your ex is possibly trying to control everything including your son He is trying to put his issues out there to manipulate your son.
I don't really know what advice to give to you other than to show your son you love him.
Over time the kids will see hopefully what their dad is doing.
AG
I don't think there is anything else I can do I know I have to stick to my guns and stay what I am
I agree with you if he is not doing it then the family they stayed with who testified against me is and that one I can atleast while he is with me limit how much exposure he has to her He may not like it but to bad I am not having strangers rule my home I am not living again in FEAR of her or my ex I alerted my lawyer to the breach in the judges orders I told her I grounded my son for a week and that included VBS for his lying and sneaking away from the house this is within my rights as his parent I am restricting his activites at church because I do not want him around her my ex is gone again out of town my son is back in my care but I won't have the same thing going on that he was doing before we went to court I am going to be the mother here the parent I am setting my rules I told him what he does with his father he does with his father but what he does with me he does with me His father isn't the parent here I am that sent him into saying ... "you just said dad wasn't a parent' I said in this home he said it's in his name it's his home. I then said but you don't see him here do you this is my home for now and that means my rules.