I just want to know someone is listening. My 'friends' aren't.
i am listening and i no exactly how you feel my friends dont care at all and i dont even know if they remeber who i am
I'm listening too. I don't even have friends really, so I'm not sure what it's exactly like to be a good friend to anyone anymore, but my dog. Still maybe I can offer something useful to say from time to time.
Aliente. I am here for you. I am listening. Please contact me and let me know what is going on so I can help you. I am praying for you right now. I know you are feeling alone and lonely but you are not alone. You are a beautiful creation. My ears and heart are open to you. Just reach out my dear.
Kelly
Hello,
My two cents worth, what ive learned after 30 years of this crap is that people who don't have problems have no clue how to respond if you bare your problems to them. It's not that they are being mean they just don't have a clue how to respond to you. So for us to vent it here with us or the doctor, therapist or when i get real bad i call suicide lines just to talk to a real voice. After 5 or 10 minutes on the phone and i feel much better.
If you are taking medicine maybe it needs to be changed to keep you even and from feeling so bad. That's what mine do for me.
So keep the stuff a friend can't understand away from them. Try that and see what happens, i'm sure things will be easier, after i figured it out it helped me.
Bye and start having great days.
So as i always say this is a good place to kick, yell or scream.
Aliente,
We are listening! I know how it feels when your 'friends' don't listen. During one of the hardest times in my life they weren't there. Seems it was their own insecurities. I agree with michael, they have no clue how to respond or are just focused on themselves. Hard to tell.
Keep your chin up and post on here. People are listening!
aliente
friends are the worst and the best of our lives we want to tell them everything and have an idea in our heads how it will go but
it never turns out right so take the advise already given and have a chat/rant here
but have a good day no matter what u are doing
love D
Hey buddy I'm listening. U can speak freely here we all understand
Hello,
You know through the years i've met lots of people, I've even hung out with them. But i can count on one hand the people who were actually friends. A friend will get out of bed at midnight to help if you are broken down in a car (they may no like it as they are sleepy). Or any other time you really need them, they come period.
The rest while you like them and they like you are just acquaintances, they come and they go. Sometimes even real friends move or you move and you loose contact over the years. That's just life things change.
Right now in this little town i live in i have ONE friend and lots of acquaintances. I don't tell them anything, and i minimunly tell me friend for the reasons i said before.
ChristianV, one thing about a dog they love you no matter what is going on i know. Thick and thin they'll be there. So it's great you have your friend. I was that way years ago with my yellow labrador., he was always there.
bye for now