So..... when i was pregnant i stayed the night with my sons father alot. and when i got 8 months pregnant is when it became a problem for my parents they would tell me to leave and i would pack my stuff then they would tale it back, they've done this repeatedly atleast ten times if not more. and since my son has been born and his father has been supporting our son they did not want him apart of his life and so i got told to leave again and it lead into an agruement and my stepdad told me to give him 800 dollars or get the f out so i left with intentions to stay with my sons fathers sister, shes a stay at home mom and sh could watch my son so i could get my ged and start college classes, well when i left my mother called dhr and told them i was making meth which was wrong and i did fail for weed, but i only smoked so i could eat and not be stressed, it was never around my son though, and i followed the safety plan with everything and my mother filed for temporary custody and it was approved and i really want my son back, its like dhr doesnt know anything and its killing me
Ashley, my best advise for you is to get cleaned up, take whatever meds they think are best, tell the dr if you feel to drugged and if the meds are helping or not. The reason i am saying all this is because I have been down the road. My family took my kids because they felt I was not taking care of myself well enough to care for the kids. So to get the kids back I had to prove I would follow the plans that the dr put out for me. Once you get custody back and are able to stay clean, get as far away from your family as you can. Cut all contact because they will continue to do it. It took me state to get my life in order. But you have to get yourself cleaned up, none of this works if you don't. Why doesn't the father take custody? He should have been next in line for custody, not your family. You and him need to sit down and talk about what you want for your son and make some choices. It needs to be out your family (you, him and your son) and not about the extended family. I know what you are going through is hard right now but don't stop fighting.