i tried telling my friend how i feel,
but since i never started the conversation,
we ended up talking about school,
i didnt know how to even tell her,
i thought she would judge me,
if i cant tell her i doubt ill even go up to my family members
Hi Rexx, the fact that you even thought to tell your friend is a step in the right direction. Maybe it didn't happen today, but it will happen the next time you two speak. A true friend will never ever judge you, but only want to help you. If this is someone that you trust, then you should be in a quiet environment where you can really let your feelings out. Or, is there one family member who you feel really comfortable speaking with? You don't need to talk to more than one person, it's just one person that you trust and can talk this through with and they will help you take the next right steps and be there to support you every step of the way.
Please keep sharing here and we will help you in any way that we can. Sending you lots of positive energy.
I agree even thinking about and attempting to do it is a huge step.
By the way:
I had this issue I thought I only had and kept from everyone, then one day I told my friend and she had the same issue and thought she was the only one. We both laughed and couldn’t believe it. Perhaps your friend has an issue they are dying to let someone know too but are too scared. Peace to everyone suffering out there.
Poofy, that's such an amazing point. I absolutely didn't judge you and I am only here to support you in any way that I can. So, imagine if we didn't, then how much your friend and/or family member will embrace you and support you through this.
thanks,
and that was a good point.
but i hope she understandsthe day i get courage to tell her.
I am sure that she will Rexx. There is a reason that you are her friend and she is yours. Friends will be there for you through and through; through good times and tough times.