Hey all! Been awhile. So this amazing great boyfriend I've had that accepted everything has apparently been doing a lot of thinking. We went away and I confronted him about our decline in sex drive. Long story short he basically agreed that he's afraid to have sex with me. He doesn't always wear a condom bc he says he figures we will marry and want kids so eventually the gloves will come off. But that convo was in April and I can count on two fingers the amount of sex we've had since then. :(
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Hi...so sorry to hear you're bf changed his mind...hope you know you're not alone...maybe time for you to do the "thinking"...sending you lot's of positive vibes!
Remember that if he's the right man for you he will accept you exactly as you are. Herpes is a skin condition and it is not the end of the world. Boys are weird. I mean I'm not saying herpes doesn't suck but the worst thing about it is the stigma!! Literally when people apologize to me because I have it i give them this confused look, like, "I don't care. The worst thing I've endured is a couple awkward conversations." Either he will commit to changing his mind or realize your worth far outweighs the fear of contracting such a common virus... It's really not that bad.