Hope u all are doing good. I m in a new problem now i hope u guys can help. For those who don't know i m married for two years i have a daughter who is 6 months now, my hubby is diagnosed HIV poz 4 months back and i m neg i m not even fully out of that shock but i decided to stay with my hubby till the end of my life. here comes the twist i feel my hubby is planning to ask me a divorce. I m feeling terrible tears filling up my eyes don't know what to do. From my heart i only wish to live with him i really love him so much..I know its his life to decide but my life is on a stake now and when i look at my daughter it makes the feeling worse...Lets see what time has for me.....
He says he loves his family so much which includes his mother and sister...I made this point clear before wedding too that i can't live in same house with his mum and sister.. I want to live my life in my ways living with in laws my life will be nothing but just adjustment...but he is coming up and telling i didn't say that and he cant live in a different house now so if i have to stay i should stay with them only.. and that's something i cant do i know..before i came to my mum house for pregnancy we were staying in different house only like me and my hubby were staying in a different house and we used to go to his mum house every weekend...i don't know now from where this has come... I have asked him only two things first to live in a separate house second me and baby is his responsibility he needs to take the responsibility now.. I didn't ask him this before since i was earning and was taking care of all my expenses and some of his too, but now i feel if he married to me and gone for baby now he should give us our place and value. he always supports his family ...I know its kind of weird but i live in india... here wedding is not just two people it includes everyone ...families relatives customs and i feel because of this only weddings are leading to break ups... Our case is one best example me and my hubby have very good chemistry we never fought not even an argument for any personal things..but from last six months i don't know what happened i went there three times and every time caught up into fight and first fight he said lets take divorce...i convinced him... second fight his mum said to his son this girl will not suit for our family send her away from house...third time his sister said if i would have known that u wont stay with us i would have denied for your wedding..
Now i have told him that you know me for two years u have seen me in good and bad times based on these two years take a decision, but the way he is texting me over the phone i feel he is planning for divorce...