Hey guys, please read this. I really need some advice. Thanks.
So here's the story:
I'm a teenager and I think I'm in love. I know that sounds ridiculous but every time I ask someone what love is, their description perfectly explains how I feel for this one guy (Boy A). Ever since I first met him, I've had feelings for him. He is literally on my mind 24/7, and it has been this way for the past 4 years. He's three years older than me and a very close friend. I think he sees me as a little sister. I tried to get over him. I am currently in a relationship with another guy (Boy B). We've been dating for only a couple of weeks though. I don't really have feelings for him, but he's already told me that he loves me. Even though I am with boy B, the only person ever on my mind is boy A. I think I should break up with boy B but I don't want to hurt his feelings. It's also hard because I don't think that boy A will ever love me the way that I love him. I only started dating boy B to get over boy A, but it only made things worse.
Any advice?
Never ever use some one to get over another. You only end up hurting the both of you. You worry about hurting your current boyfriend but honey, you're already hurting him by deceiving him. Break it off now before he falls deeper in love. Do you want him to hurt for you like you do for guy A? Of course you don't. Be a good person and let him go. Until you are over guy A, you need to be alone and do some soul searching, maturing, and healing. Then you'll be ready for someone to sweep you off your feet and you will be fully able to commit to the relationship. I don't doubt you are in love. I think there is no crazier or stronger love than teen love. It's pure and it's nutters lol. Have you ever told guy A how you feel? Do it. You have nothing to lose. If he rejects you, it hurts really bad... But aren't you already hurting for him now. At least after telling him you'll know where you stand. Sometimes rejection let's you get over something and move on. It's the not knowing that keeps you hanging on!
@panther88 Wow, you are a teenager, in loved with the same guy for 4 years? You are loving him from a distant....... For he sees you, liked his little sister, he's 3 years older than you, but your thoughts for him is 24/7. You'll are closed friends, but you are currently dating another boy, who you cared about, but don't loved? @Randomjelly posted some good advised for you, I couldn't said it better..... You got to break up with current boyfriend, before you hurt him more, and let the boy, you cared about, and love know how you feel. Maybe, it will wrecked your friendship, but at least you will know, how he felt about you...... You are young, you will fall in, and love many times, after this...... You may think right Now, This Is It, True Love, it's never is, not this young. How do I know? I once was a teenager, and I now I am a mom to teenagers, they fall in, and out of loved on a regular basis..... Their dad, and Inare always there to guided them on the ways of Love. Yes, I feel my kids, should feel free to come, and discussed challenges in their lives with us, their parents..... How we know so much about Love, and matters of the Heart? This Summer, it will be our 20th Wedding Anniversary........
Well u definitely should break up with boy b, never use someone to get over someone else. From my (limited) experience, tell the guy! If u think he doesn't like you then he probably doesn't, but you'll be one step closer to letting go of what you've been building up for 4 years. Be honest with yourself and the people around you. It'll hurt like crazy at first if he rejects you, but at least you won't be wasting 4 more years dwelling in unrequited love. Good luck!