Hey guys. So I'm struggling to figure out some things right now. I'm depressed, I haven't been eating or sleeping, and I'm anemic biologically because I carry the trait and I know not taking my pills is dangerous. However, when I don't eat I can't take them. Then there's this guy at school I really like but he doesn't want something serious because next year he's traveling. Well neither do I, and I feel like it'd be nice just to have some sort of fun relationship. I'm considering asking him to be casual, just eat together and hang out, maybe mess around but no sex, and see what happens. I know he might say no, and I know I need to get my life together outside that too, but I figure if he says yes it's something to look forward to in the morning. Recently my friend was hit by a car and she's okay but I wished it was me. I was going to commit suicide. I chose not to, but I feel I need something more to look forward to, just as a reminder? And at least we're already friends and he cares about me, and he knows I couldn't be there all the time cause I'm busy, and I know he couldn't, so there'd be no disillusionment or false pretenses. What do you guys think? Just looking for advice, words of wisdom, and motivation. Thank you!
Hey what's up :)
Oh man, just random stuff. That post is the best summary I could muster.
I just wish I could get some guidance on it really.
Ask him. What do you have to lose?
His friendship all together or his respect :\ I'm worried, any advice on how to approach the topic?
U never know, if you dont try.
Maybe instead of trying to talk to him about it, just a make it happen. Say there is a movie you really want to see, does he want to come with. You want to try a new restaurant, does he want to come with you? Just start off small and go from there.
I agree, don't limit your self. If you want to be in a casual relationship, ask him and see how he feels. The worst he can say is know. Sometimes taking 10 deep breathes and counting at least 3 good things going well for me begin to make me feel better when I am down and depressed. Try helping or volunteering at a place that helps others. That really makes me feel good about myself. I hope things begin to turn around for you :)