Hey! I'm wondering if our own obsession over weight and for

Hey! I'm wondering if our own obsession over weight and for consumption, can lead to trying to control our spouse's eating habits and weight? I have issues with food restrictions, and an obsession with my own weight and physical appearance..... And I'm finding that I'm trying to control my husband in the same way that I need to control myself. I want to understand why I do this to my spouse because I want to stop this atrocious and unacceptable behavior. Does anyone have any insight? I should also include that this weight obsession also extends to my two dogs - I worry about their weight as well.

It is a compulsion, have you considered seeking therapy to address this?

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@CKBlossom I have thought about it. It’s not always a cause of anxiety… it seems to come in waves. You’re right in that it’s likely a compulsion.