Hi everyone! I just joined this group to learn more about ho

Hi everyone! I just joined this group to learn more about how to cope with my lifelong codependent behavior. I have been reading a lot, and want to surround myself with people in the same boat as I am. I wish all of you kindred spirits the possibility of a happy day!

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Hi AbbieNormal, In the same boat so to speak...Was married for 20, divorced for 4...I still support her financially and emotionally, she will never let me move on..Or should I say??? Due to my codependency I'll never be able to let myself move on...It's a constant that I enable her this way, why?, I don't know?? And not only is it not fair to her to let her gain her own independence..It's not fair to myself either.....It's a very isolated trapped kind of feeling.

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