Hi guys. I need a little advice. I am 23 years old, a single mom and graduating college in 4 months. I plan to move to another country after I graduate and live there. But then I have a bit of a problem. I have very controlling parents. Especially my mom. They would like me to go to law school and continue to study. I want to tell them that I don't want to do that. But I fear they'll just start getting angry and would make a big fuss again. This is really bothering me. Please help me.
You have to make your own choices: if you let them control your life again, it will never stop. I understand that you don't want them to be angry. Fear can be the result of lack of communication. Do you communicate well with your parents ? Can you open with talk ?
@mïakû yes I do. I try my very best to talk to them. But it would result to non-stop talking from my mom. And she would always say that I don’t know how to respect and give back to them.