Hi. I am in a relationship with a woman who is very supporti

Hi. I am in a relationship with a woman who is very supportive of my irrational jealousy.
However as time goes on I can see the strain my insecurity is having on is both.
Should I abandon the relationship to protect her? Or continue to try and fix myself with counselling?
Has anyone managed to defeat jealousy and Dave their relationship here? How?
I'm very lost

Have you considered asking her what she would like or what would make your relationship better for her? -SG

@Garfy82 What would make you feel more secure in your relationship?