hi, i am new here. I am a 44 yr old woman who is married and is bi. I have a girlfriend who is a nudist and will be with other women as well. She said she would be faithful emotionally. I am new to all the nudist thing and her way of seeing life in general. I am the type of person that I am very loyal to whom i love. I don't understand it sometimes. I feel a bit lonely due to being bi though i have a husband. He tries to be supportive but I think it is hard on him at times. I know this is so much at once.......I am just feeling alone
I think you may feel lonely because your involved with a woman who is unfaithfull, emotionally and in every way
i think you are absolutely correct. You hit the nail on the head! I really would love to have a girlfriend who is happy with just me and would be a close friend to me
I understand your feelings, I am a 59 year old Bisexual man with a straight wife. Being Bi sometimes can the best of both worlds and sometimes can also be the worst of both worlds. Life is a balance.
The way I see it, some people are able to have open relationships and some aren't. I'd never be okay with an open relationship. When I love someone, be they male, female, in-between, or neither I am intimate with them and them alone. That's just at the core of my personality and how I love. It sounds like you are the same. Your friend's way of life may be fine for her but not for you, maybe that's why you're having misgivings. Don't let her talk you into things you don't want.
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Thank you Ana and Larry. I am having second thoughts about this person. I feel like giving up the bi side of me and just stay straight. I know there will always be something missing though
Good to hear that you are putting your spouse first. Being a nudist isn't difficult just undress and relax, it doesn't have to be sexual - just relax, you might want to try it some time with your husband. My wife and I sit and read or watch TV nude every night. Take care.
Hi Larry, yes I believe your spouse should come first. I don't have a model body so am self conscious of the nude thing. We have a nude bike ride coming up here in the city and I am going there to participate but not sure if I will be nude. Maybe just topless. How does your wife feel about you being bi? Is she supportive?
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At the perfect age of 59 most people would rather not see my wife and I nude, but getting old is part of life. I’m not nude for their enjoyment, I’m nude for my comfort.
My wife is very supportive of my sexual orientation she knew that I was Bi long before I admitted it to myself, she was waiting for me to discover it for myself. It wasn’t until I had my first same sex experience did I know for sure, she was there when it happened. My wife is always with me when I have sex with our male friends, I wouldn’t have any other way. Cheating is cheating it doesn’t matter if is with a woman or a man. Also my wife is the only woman I have sex with.